Рузов В. О. - 100 вопросов, меняющие жизнь - 18 - текст песни, слова, перевод, видео

18 Lecture.

Today we will be interested in the following amazing issues. In principle, in all matters there is the same background: if I am so smart, why am I still not happy? But happiness does not come from minds, happiness comes from approaching the source of happiness. But this is already called a spiritual search. I must be in such a state that all the time to feel the presence of a source of happiness next to me. As a matter of fact, all questions are asked about happiness, they only approach this topic from different angles. Happiness is really multifaceted, since it proceeds from the source of the quality of infinity, so you can talk endlessly about happiness, and about its achievement, respectively, too. So our seminar will continue endlessly, you can download it from my site all your life. In general, by definition, it is not interesting to study what has limits ... So what is interesting in studying a matchbox? But happiness is really interesting to study, since it is not possible to finally study it physically! The real goal should be unattainable! So, what next question did Yamaraj asked? He asked: "How is the great comprehended?" - And Maharaja Yudhishthira replied: "The great is comprehended by asceticism." Therefore, today, as you guessed, we will talk a little about the feat.

The feat in our understanding is immediately associated with military operations. Yes, we have to conflict with various people, and this is especially painful when we have to conflict with the most relatives, with the closest, with those whom we love. Quite often, we do it for the sake of their own good, as we want to somehow show our love. But our love is not always accepted, our understanding of the good is not always happy, so conflicts arise, simply because we are different, simply because we look differently at this world. For some, the yellow light of a traffic light is that, after which red will light up, and for others a yellow light, this is what green will light up. We are not so much looking at the situation itself as we plan, how it all will end for me ...

Therefore, the happiest people are humble people, people who are ready to accept any end of the situation as the mercy of God, which means to accept it with gratitude. And no matter how hard we try, even the husband and wife will not be able to look equally at this world, they will still have a similar point of view, but a little with their bias, or with masculine or female. It is not for nothing that it is said that in order to find happiness with a man, you need to understand him very much and love him a little. And in order to find happiness with a woman, you need to love her strongly and not even try to understand. And in general, the girl is looking for a guy with a good future, and the guy is looking for a girl with a good past. In general, do not worry about aliens, create a family and live all your life with a representative of alien thinking ...

Therefore, we must understand well what is the asceticism in domestic plan, how to show it with the loved ones themselves, how to show it in a domestic conflict. And the sages explain that no matter what confrontation we fought, no matter what war we started, by definition, victory cannot be predicted in any of the battles, so the best thing is to achieve the world with negotiations. Here it is a simple intra -family asceticism - to negotiate until the world comes, until mutual understanding comes, until love returns. And asceticism is expressed in the fact that I am ready to do this as much as necessary. Modern conflict thinking is expressed by days, or even hours, I give you 2 hours, if you do not change your mind, then I am leaving you. Thinking in the spirit of asceticism is expressed in decades. I give you 20 years, if you do not change, then I will arrange you! Therefore, remember this truth: the best means in this world to achieve your goal is negotiations. Here he is a real feat - to negotiate his whole life and never bring to open military operations.
You can also stop any relationship at all, although this method is not so good. But he also acts. We continue to be together, we decide about