Олег Гадецкий - Основы семейных отношений - текст песни, слова, перевод, видео

Oleg Gadetsky reveals the features of male and female qualities of character, on which the harmony of family relationships is based.

Very often, many are faced with the fact that in reality it turns out to be simple and obvious, but, not knowing the features of the arrangement of the universe, it is very, very difficult to understand why this is happening. But if you understand the essence of these phenomena, then their management will become several orders of magnitude more effective. This also applies to family relationships. So, just the Vedas explain the essence of many obvious things, including male and female qualities.

The peculiarity of family relations is that they are based on the interaction of completely different principles, energies: male and female. And the Vedas say that a harmonious and happy family can be built even knowing only the essence of the foundations of family relationships, which is inherent in the features of male and female character qualities.

The basis of family relations is a situational role approach. Family is like a ship, and everyone should fulfill the role that is defined by him by nature. Imagine a navigator and a cook on a ship will begin to fulfill not their duties, but another. In some cases, this is possible and even necessary to do, but in the long run the navigator by nature, acting the duties of the cook, will be simply disappointed over time. After all, he has the consciousness of the navigator and the heart of the navigator, and you need to deal with pans and pots. Moreover, consciousness determines being, and what kind of cook, who has the consciousness of the navigator?

The same is the same in the family sphere: if you want your husband to fully manifest male qualities of character, which are now not at all, although he is a man in the depths of these qualities, it was simply not yet sprouted, there was no opportunity to show them , then inspire your husband and provide all the possibilities for this. Do not press and do not force, but inspire and patiently expect, because everything comes with practice, and practice takes time.

The same goes for a woman. Female qualities of character can develop only in a certain area: the family sphere, the sphere of relations, love and care.

Why is it important that a woman has female qualities, and male qualities have a man? Everything is very simple. Ask yourself the question: "Why is another wife (woman) in the family?" Why is another husband (man) at home to her husband? And what happens when two men or two women gather together? Remember Krylov’s fable “Swan, Cancer and Pike”? Yes, different creatures tried to do the same work, took on the same duties. They all sincerely tried, but it was not their sphere.

And one more reason: at a deep level, even the most wife -like man wants to see a real woman nearby, and a husband -like woman wants to see a real man nearby. Perhaps at the beginning of the relationship this will not be particularly manifested and felt, since the wife-like man harmoniously complements the masculine woman, but over time, the true nature will fully show himself and serious conflicts will begin due to the fact that the responsibilities are not distributed correctly.

That's right - means according to natural laws. Therefore, the basis of family relationships is to help each other show their best qualities of character, even if this clearly does not work: a woman is female qualities of character, and a man is male. As for the shortcomings, there are plenty of them everywhere and always, especially in Kali-yugu (our era). But loving helps and inspire, and not condemn and do not require. Love creates, and this is possible only with the support, patience and sincere help to others.

This is what Oleg Gadetsky tells about this in a fragment of audio training “The Laws of Fate, or the Art of Living”.